As always, Sadie, a great 'ramble'!
When it comes to viewing videos online, I consider myself fortunate that my online access is very slow. Makes watching anything a very long process. Even when there were lots of televized craft programs like Carol Duvall & Aleene's, I was a so-so viewer. By the time those programs--& others--were available, I was already somewhat 'set' in how I learned any craft process/technique.
For me, it's ok to see how someone is doing something, but the chances of my doing it their way are usually slim. One of my designer pals once opined that I always wanted to 'reinvent the wheel'. LOL! She was correct. And I don't think it's a gender issue. I've know lots of female crafters who work the same way. They can be 'influenced' by another's process, but in the end, they still feel the need to do their own research & experimentation. Those who don't share our 'quirk' roll their eyes & shake their heads sadly.
I figure it's 'apples & oranges'. So long as folks are happily making stuff, it's all good no matter how they decide to get their results.
As I've shared before, I taught a great many craft classes in many categories over the years. There were always a few students whose goal was 'to do what I did'. As I become a more experienced instructor I began to share with my students that they were never going to 'do my work' any more than I would be able to do 'their work'. Happily, many students understoood what I was trying to share with them. And what's that you may ask?
It's that we can each have identical materials, knowledge & more, but our results will never be identical. Why? Because each of us is a unique individual. I've always found it ironic that something like 'common sense' is one of the most uncommon human traits & that being 'unique' is the most common human trait of all--IMO.
I'm thoughly enjoying the posts about what CASE means to us & how we use this in our efforts to learn & create. I continue to see it as a chance to do the reverse-engineering in may cases.
What I am always leery of is anything & anyone who uses words like 'should always', 'never', 'must' & such. I'm not doubting that they are well-meaning, but using those kind of words around me is like waving a red flag @ a bull. Now that
might be a 'guy thing' (or just my unique response to being told what to do).
What an example? If someone tells me all wheels
must be round, I will bust a gut to invent a square wheel that 'works'.